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After several rejections, I stopped asking her and began going to the games by myself. Because of the distance developing between us, I stopped calling Linda from work. It started when I occasionally forgot to phone her on my breaks but slowly ended completely. I also stopped bringing Linda flowers because I didn’t want to stop on my way home from a tiring day at the office. As the distance grew between Us, I stopped sharing the events of my day with Linda. When she asked me how my day was, I usually sighed and said “fine.” A year later, we sat in a marriage counselor’s office, considering divorce. Unfortunately, this is a very common situation that we see quite often. The Good Ole Days: Back during the days you dated your spouse, you probably dressed in a way that made you as attractive as possible to them and treated him or her like gold. More than likely, you spent hours on the phone talking to each other and shared dreams, opinions and concerns. You may have gone to a movie or event that you didn't particularly enjoy because |
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"Back during the days you dated your spouse, you probably dressed in a way that made you as attractive as possible to them and treated him or her like gold. More than likely, you spent hours on the phone talking to each other and shared dreams, opinions and concerns"
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you knew that your boyfriend or girlfriend wanted to go. More than likely, neither of you thought marriage would change those things. It might surprise you to know that many of the problems married couples face would end if they would reinstate a “dating attitude” into their relationships. Likewise, engaged couples and newlyweds should continue these principles in marriages and make constant efforts to maintain them. It takes work and planning, but the rewards are well worth it. Don’t Mess with Success: If your spouse thought you would stop doing the things that won them over in the beginning, do you think he or she would have agreed to marry you? Married life obviously brings stresses that dating life does not. You might even say that dating life is more like a dream and married life is the real world. It’s true we can’t keep everything that we liked about dating in a marriage. But we can keep many of the things that led us to marriage in the first place. Don’t misunderstand; it is not acceptable for a spouse to erase their commitment to the other because he or she changes. But it is important that neither of you mess with success if you want to remain happily married. Obviously, he chose her based on her actions and personality while dating/courting. She chose him based on the same. If one spouse changes that later, the other might feel tricked or even betrayed. |
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your relationship. After all, that's what won the heart of your spouse. And that's what Rob probably continue to win their heart. If things aren't going well in your marriage, try going back to the beginning. You might be surprised how much your relationship improves. Every marriage has a “deal” that is usually established while the couple is dating and in the first few years of marriage. That deal includes the stated and unstated ideas about who is responsible for what, how the two people will behave toward each other and as a couple, and how they will interact with the extended family. Almost any deal will work - as long as both people agree and stay true to it. Problems come about when one or the other person wants to change the deal. However, for husbands, below are the steps to making your wives happy again:- Step1: Tell her every day how much you love her and how beautiful she is to you. If she smiles, it worked. If she doesn't smile, wait for better time. To show you he’s strong and capable: Beneath the surface, men wonder if they have what it takes. When men compete, they’re often captured by the challenge to prove themselves.
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Author: Rob
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