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Judgment: Men fear judgment, whether by colleagues in the office, teammates in the changing room or, above all, by a new girlfriend. Penis size can worry some men. Remember that someone’s penis always looks smaller to the owner than to an onlooker. Women may prefer a medium-size but thick penis but, if a lover is attentive, even if offering a button rather than a baton, it won’t matter. Don’t rush into sex and focus attention immediately on the genitalia: Take it slowly. Learn to massage. This can easily shade into great foreplay, especially if your partner is tired or stressed. Use plenty of lubrication. There’s more to sex than pushing the right button. Men have discovered that the key to female orgasm is clitoral stimulation, and many now rub the lamp rather than poking around inside it. The upside is that women are climaxing more often but the increase in emphasis on genital manipulation has made for some very mechanical sex. Going straight to the erogenous zones is the equivalent of fast forward. Men who focus on left breast, right breast, genitals, reduce their partner to a set of body parts. Touch can be a powerful sex enhancer. Loving touch causes a number of hormones to surge, including oxytocin and endorphins. Just thinking of being touched can cause an oxytocin surge, |
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"Though clitoral orgasm is easy to achieve, most women want to experience penetrative orgasm. Intercourse is the ultimate connection between man and woman and the sensation of fullness that it creates is intensely pleasurable"
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creating the desire for more. Massage is one special way of giving pleasure to your lover. Don’t assume your partner is comfortable in her own skin: A survey of 3,500 women, found out that one woman in ten feels so embarrassed about her body that she turns the lights out before taking off her clothes. The average woman still spends a lot of time every day beating herself up about her weight and looks. Nakedness increases that vulnerability, so be sensitive to her insecurities and, if you think that your partner looks great, for God’s sake tell her. Make certain that your partner knows how attractive you find her by paying as much attention to kissing her, complimenting her and generally spoiling her. Don’t neglect the breasts and other erogenous zones. Women are slow burners: They take longer to become aroused and get as much pleasure, if not more, out of tenderness, kissing and cuddling. Though quickie sex has its place, for women on the whole, the longer sex takes, the better it feels. If arousal is allowed to build gradually, it floods the whole body rather than being confined to the genital area and a delayed orgasm is infinitely more powerful than an orgasm induced by five minutes of digital manipulation. Be polite: Never nudge your partner’s head towards your nether regions. During fellatio don’t thrust into your partner’s mouth, don’t hold the side of her head – and definitely warn her when you think you are going to come. With regard to orgasm, always |
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operate a ladies-first policy. Penetration: Though clitoral orgasm is easy to achieve, most women want to experience penetrative orgasm. Intercourse is the ultimate connection between man and woman and the sensation of fullness that it creates is intensely pleasurable. Any penile discharge or sore, however apparently trivial, means that sex is out: Chlamydia in the male may be almost symptom-free. It may show only as a mild inflammation of the end of the penis, so that the lips are stuck together in the morning. Both sexes have off days: Most men occasionally have poor or tardy erections and even fit, athletic, overenthusiastic men, as well as the inexperienced and anxious, may suffer premature ejaculation. Protection: Always use a condom with a new partner, even if she seems as innocent as a nun. Regular partners should still have chlamydia and blood tests. Positions: Sexual gymnastics are often distracting. Chopping and changing positions and techniques can make a woman’s sexual excitement plummet. Poor Thrusting: Thrusting for hours without climaxing doesn’t make you a stud muffin. It does make the vagina numb and sore. Put a little X in your sex: Watching steamy movies with your partner will increase the chance that you will have sex and remember to take your socks off just in case. There’s no substitute for excitement: The range of lubricants on the market can add slip and slide, but should never be used as a short cut. We have given you all the reasons you should become an incredible sex master. You should not go through life being horrible at a game that gives you ultimate pleasure, satisfaction and happiness. Be the best at it and be able to draw energy, confidence, power from your the successful expression of your own sexuality. Sex is not a sport but a game. You should enjoy it and if you do not, you probably have one of the greatest problems. Some people engage in sex because they feel it is an obligation. If this is your attitude, you should stop it before it becomes worse. Sexual mastery is possible if you believe in your ability to take control of your performance. Get few tricks and techniques but do not struggle when you have little or no knowledge about sexual mystery
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Author: Dr. Tom
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